My husband does not know that I give away some of the clothes he wears that I don't like. Now, if I could just get rid of all the camo!

that after he cheated on me i started sleeping with his bestfriend and now i feel awful and want a divorce.

She doesn't know that I chat everyday online with a woman and I have been doing it for 8 years.

He doesn't know I'm waiting for him to divorce me, because I don't want to be the bad guy.

that I have far more sex and enjoy it more than with him/her...

Nothing. He knows me better than anyone else (including my mother, although it's close). Why say "forever" with someone who doesn't know you? Sooner or later something will come out about you that they "shouldn't" know and that's just trouble... Many years ago my stepmother told my husband some awful things about me ... which he already knew. She was trying to drive a wedge between us (we were even newly married) and all she did was get an invitation from him NEVER to contact him again. Be loyal, be honest, or don't bother...

Sorry, akchild and cowilliams2--you are already the bad guy, so go ahead and get the divorce. You and your partners will be happier and you can start being honest.
Been there, done that, ain't goin' back there again.

i like doing laundry

that she doesn't know everything there is to know about me.

My significant other knows everything...I couldn't imagine it being any other way. Some of these comments are very interesting.

cowilliams2, I hate to tell you this but if your SO googles that email address he'll know too. I hope it's a fake one for your sake!