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Ralph's Message to Booing Fans

I figured Ralph Friedgen would reach a boiling point regarding the backlash of the fans, many of whom were heard booing Steffy (or the offense) Saturday. I asked Ralph what he would say to fans who boo Steffy, and Ralph got a little emotional, choking up some, when he answered:

“It is their right, they paid for their tickets. They can do really what they want. I am just saying. If you would know this person, and the contribution he has made to his football program, and the fact that he is going through tough times right now, and still doing everything in his power for us to be a good football team, it speaks volumes about the character this kid has, what kind of team player he is. I know he has the respect of our players. I know he has the respect of our coaches.

“Maybe I am like a father. If you’re booing my son, I’m going to get upset. That’s how I look at this kid. If he was a kid who didn’t give effort, who didn’t prepare, then that would be a different story. But that is not the case with this kid. People don’t believe me. I have a lot invested in this also, and I would not put a guy out there who I didn’t think was the best guy. In practice he is. I have had other kid; Sam Hollenbach developed the last five or six games in his college career. It is a learning process. The game has to slow down for you. It has not always for Jordan right now. I don’t know.

“You want to boo me, boo me. Don’t boo the kid.”

Ralph was also asked whether he was worried about Jordan’s confidence at this stage of the season, and Ralph let loose:

“There are a lot of things that bother me right now with this whole thing. I have got a kid who has done everything he can possibly do. Would I like him to make some better decisions or make some better passes? Sure. But this kid to me is the epitome of what we want in this football program. With what he is dealing, and the scrutiny of every pass being judged, some of those people booing him would love for their children to be like Jordan Steffy. The perseverance, the courage, the toughness that this kid is going through, to keep a smile on his face and a positive attitude, he has nothing but my admiration.

“And I personally don’t think it is justified, I really don’t. I know this is a tough sport, and all of that, and we’re here to win football games. But we’re also here to develop young men for the future. And some of the things this kid is dealing with are going to make this kid an even better person later on. I can’t tell you how proud I am that he is in our program and how proud I am if he were my son or anyone else’s son. I get a little discouraged because he is the type of kid that he is, and he wants to please, he wants to do as well as he can. Instead of having a positive effect, it probably makes his job even tougher. And yet, he has not hung his head. He was trying to go Monday, but Coach James Franklin told him not to. I want that guy in the foxhole with me. That is the type of kid he is.”

I just got word that the quarterbacks will not speak to the media today, but they are planned to be made available tomorrow. I will have a detailed story in tomorrow’s paper, constant updates on the blog throughout the day and also an immediate post on whether Steffy is practicing today. Stay tuned, and thanks for all the comments. Keep firing away!

By Eric Prisbell  |  September 2, 2008; 3:22 PM ET
Categories:  Football  | Tags: Boo, Booing, Fans, Jordan Steffy, Ralph Friedgen  
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Comments

It sounds like Ralph is so emmotionally invested in Jordan that he is unable to choose another player for the QB position even if warranted.

Posted by: Paco in Ajijic | September 2, 2008 3:49 PM | Report abuse

This is a math problem that even CCSCULLY could solve. Play the best QB Fridge. Emotional favorites are for the "home". FREDTERP

Posted by: FREDTERP | September 2, 2008 3:55 PM | Report abuse

Third!

Posted by: Anonymous | September 2, 2008 3:57 PM | Report abuse

It doesn't take many people booing, to be heard, I thought it was over the top. I hope the Fridge knows a lot of us are appreciative of what coach has done for the program,& who plays QB is his call.

Posted by: Barry | September 2, 2008 4:00 PM | Report abuse

that's great that Ralph thinks that Steffy is such a great person. i'm sure that he is.

but that's not the point! you don't start the QB who is the best person. you start the QB who is the best QB!

the fact that that is not obvious is a very bad sign. Ralph has been great for MD but he cannot be putting his personal relationships ahead of what's best for the team.

Posted by: Toby | September 2, 2008 4:02 PM | Report abuse

Ralph! We understand that he is a great kid. He is just a terrible quarterback!!! Your job is to win football games, not to make friends with your players!

Posted by: V | September 2, 2008 4:08 PM | Report abuse

If Fridge wanted a son, he should've kept trying. We don't want Fridge's son on the field, we want the best QB to give us a chance to win games.

It's SO obvious that Ralph is playing favorites and is too emotionally involved with Steffy to see the real truth that Turner is the better QB on the field on game days.

I don't know what happened to the Friedgen of old, but this old Friedgen has become emotionally and mentally unstable over the last several years and it has impaired his judgement.

It seems to me that he can't handle the pressure anymore and is making decisions based on what makes him feel better.

Maybe he should get to know Turner as well as he knows Steffy, cuz he'd find out what a great kid Turner is too...

Posted by: Sam | September 2, 2008 4:14 PM | Report abuse

The people who booed are complete jerks. This is college, folks. You don't boo a bunch of college kids who are doing the best job they can. Who in hell is that helping? Post it to a message board or picket Fridge's house if you like, but don't boo a 20 year old kid who's working his ass off for your team. Jesus. You're as bad as NC State fans.

Posted by: Kate | September 2, 2008 4:27 PM | Report abuse

the booing, as heartfelt as it may have been, was purely Bush-league. if anyone watched the kid from UCLA throw 4 interceptions against Tennessee, they didn't hear any booing from the Bruin faithful. that's because "faithful" is what they were. in the meantime, Byrd Stadium sounded like it was filled with a fine collection of spoiled chumps.

Posted by: mdrockjock | September 2, 2008 4:44 PM | Report abuse

Two points:

1) Every starting D1 QB has every one of their passes critiqued.
2) The BOO's are not pointed at Steffy, their pointed at Ralph.

Posted by: Brad | September 2, 2008 4:45 PM | Report abuse

Kate the booing was targeted at the Fridge? FREDTERP

Posted by: FREDTERP | September 2, 2008 4:49 PM | Report abuse

I agree with a few posters here...Ralph really does seem like he's lost the handle on the Steffy/QB thing. Reading his remarks when asked about replacing Steffy, you could almost expect that Ralph just burst into tears, sobbing uncontrollably. My gosh, it's a normal question, one that needs asking. He should just answer the questions concerning Steffy's injury and performance, and leave all that "he's such a good kid stuff" out of it, because it doesn't belong there. It does seem that the offense is a completely different team with Turner in there. I would expect that the stats from last year would prove that. I hear what Ralph is saying, and I find myself worrying about Ralph. When he talks about it, it sounds like he has really lost his grip. He sounds like he's totally lost his perspective.

Posted by: Mike | September 2, 2008 5:02 PM | Report abuse

Kate, come on ... get real! College football is not as innocent as it used to be. The stakes are higher. Fans pay good money to see their team WIN.

There are several almunus who make significant financial contributions to help better the University of Maryland and the football program as well.

The problem with Jordan is that he just have the "it" factor. He has been given more opportunities than anyone else to prove he can play at the college level. Sad but true - he has failed. He is on this team purely because of Coach Ralph's affection for him, and not because of his talent.

Posted by: Anonymous | September 2, 2008 7:07 PM | Report abuse

I think it's commendable that Jordan Steffy is a quality person. HOWEVER, and this is a big however, he has NO RIGHT to be on the field.

Plus Steffy has already had four concussions and RF is risking his future by continuing to put him in harm's way.

You never hear Friedgen talk about the good qualities of Chris Turner or Josh Portis. But guess what, they mean just as much to the program as your beloved son, Jordan Steffy.

Posted by: Charles | September 2, 2008 7:24 PM | Report abuse

Big Ralph is so in the tank for Steffy it's nauseating. We all get it--Steffy is a great guy who could date Ralph's daughter with his blessing. Steffy is not a great QB, a good QB, a serviceable QB, a mediocre QB, or even a bad QB. He is a panicky, dump off prone, sack prone, fumbling prone, interception prone, bad decision prone QB who would not even start for Delaware. He has been put in the position of being a division 1 QB in the ACC and therefore is subject for whatever scrutiny or accolades that come with the position. Fans can boo if they choose or cheer--their money--their decision. What Eric Prisbell needs to do is make Ralph aware the he got what he asked for Saturday--the fans were booing him and not Steffy, who cannot be faulted for his coaches bad decisions.

Posted by: zman | September 2, 2008 7:46 PM | Report abuse

steffy IS a great kid, will be successful in life, maybe as a coach, BUT........ not as the Terp QB no matter how hard anyone hopes. I already know the 2 plays Portis runs, so even if Midd. Tenn. hasn't figured it out yet, they will by play 3. That leaves Napolean D

Posted by: devans | September 2, 2008 8:08 PM | Report abuse

I appreciate what the coach has done for the program. As an alum, and a lifelong fan, I've had to deal with alot of bad coaches and bad teams (Krivak, Duffner, Vanderlinden) over the past 25 years. However, it seems like Fridge has squandered his chance to really build a special program in College Park, especially after his early success. With the league down this year, there's a chance for this team to do something. I just wish Fridge would do the right thing and play Turner, or give Portis a chance. I know when Portis came here, he was very highly touted. In the past, we have seen what a mobile QB with a strong arm can do.

Posted by: Vince | September 3, 2008 8:55 AM | Report abuse

LOl at people not recognizing that the booing is for Fridge and Steffy's play. People pay a lot of hard earned money for tickets and TC membership...and at $2M, Fridge is not earning his salary. He's made a lot of bad decisions in the past 4 years and the fan base will drop AGAIN and we'll have trouble selling the suites if Fridge keeps making emotional decisions for the good of the team. We have a ton of talent on offense and he's squandering the opportunity. there were concerns from the high $$ seats...he might be losing control of the program.

Posted by: ML in DC | September 3, 2008 9:41 AM | Report abuse

Oh, please. I'm sure to the kids on the field, it's entirely clear that the booing is directed at Fridge and not at Steffy. That's just ridiculous. There's no excuse for booing, other than that fans are spoiled brats who feel entitled to a winning season. Congrats on being those fans, Terps - good luck with that.

Posted by: SS Luke | September 3, 2008 11:14 AM | Report abuse

Newsflash...this is big time college football, a multi-billion dollar business. Ralph makes $2M in a recession and people still pony up thousands for TC memberships, donations and tickets...you're not in the rec league. A 5th year senior that fragile cannot be our QB if we are to not waste the talent around him. The game doesn't slow down all of a sudden for a 5th year senior and he better not let a smattering of boos over the coach and his play get to him. They play Div.II ball down the street.

Posted by: ML in DC | September 3, 2008 11:49 AM | Report abuse

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